Do Not Marry For These Reasons (1)

Here are some reasons that you shouldn’t marry. When people stay together it needs the trust, respect, understand, love and care that would make love last long. Do you think marriage has something to do here? Don’t make it wrong, it’s very explicit to show here for you to take the decision-making before walking to wedding ceremony. #1.You best friends are getting married Don’t make an excuse and get blind married. Listen to your inner heart ask yourself are you ready, are you steady to settle down? #2.Sex &Love You know what your heart it wants right? Love is sex Read More …

Be Kind Do Not Judge

If you judge people you don’t have time to love them. [Mother Teresa] you never understand everyone’s circumstance or situation till you were them, so be kind don’t judge. When you judge people, it doesn’t define them but it defines you. Just be nice and say hi to people in the street or someone you don’t know but it’s not your business to judge the people you even just know them for the first day? Then the question is how you judge people? You know their background, you know the whole story of their life, you know how they fight Read More …

My couch surfing experiences

First I heard Couch surfing from one of my friends, he is travel solo. He introduced me to it since we love traveling like a local. Free stay sounds good to me I don’t have to pay and save cost for accommodation. But here is not as what I thought for the first time. Couch Surfing is not the free place to stay, it is the place that you can share the traveling experiences, tips, culture, cuisine, life experiences, meet up with good like-minded people and make a new friends all over the world. This makes me so explicit about Read More …

Learn To Give Up On Something

Do not let these words [don’t give up] fool at you or dead with it. Many people keep telling us don’t give up, don’t give up but no one will tell you to give up, right?  here give up or not is an option. Why here I am talking about learn to give up on something that put you down, holding you back, or it is not your own dream. Sometime you have to give up on what you got to get what you really want, isn’t it right? We won’t give up on what is our dream, won’t give Read More …

Left Over Woman Like Me

Hello it’s me [leftover woman]. Do not get me wrong, leftover woman is also human we are not monster. Culture, Social value, family puts so much pressures on [leftover woman], do you think it is easy for standing here with a lot fighting? We are here leftover women are fighting, struggling too hard to have our own today to be a strong woman. I was born in Cambodia where the place that value and care too much on culture, social and what other people thinking about their life……… I am sick of the same old stuff, most of my friends Read More …

我是处女座

有很多人可能不够了解处女座 也许不是每个处女座都是一样啦。我这里只说我自己的处女座是什么样的人，外冷内热 很难让人接近 接触后才发现处女座没那么难交朋友 喜欢帮人家 不管好朋友或者陌生人 只要看到别人有困难就出手帮忙 管多闲事 也是处女座一种毛病。处女座爱恨都分得清清楚楚 有时候你们可以是处女座最最好的朋友 突然你们让处女座很失望 死了心 那不怪她了 回头是两个人的世界。 处女座不会害人 会原谅 可是她们根本忘不了你们对她做些什么 处女座有时候很爱计较 因为她是追求完美的人类 喜欢胡思乱想的东西 没安全感 但偏偏给别人安全感。有很多事喜欢藏在心里 一个人喝闷酒也不愿意跟朋友分享 所以人家都以为处女座是开心的人 没什么烦恼 其实处女座不想告诉朋友或者家人 只怕多给他们麻烦 还是担心而已 宁愿一个人扛。处女座很开朗 喜欢研究新的东西 很有原则 规则 跟处女座不熟的人 会觉得她人很烦 总会给别人压力 追求完美的一颗心是治不好的病，对友谊很认真 总是考虑到朋友的感受 爱斗气的处女座 不让她做什么 处女座却去做什么 指她做什么偏偏就不去做 就是说不喜欢别人指指点点 告诉她怎么办事 想控制她那别说了 是控制不了的。处女座爱自由自在 喜欢什么就去做什么 她是自我 但不是自私 责任感很高 处女座既然不说她有多爱她家庭 可是默默为了家人付出 为了家庭着想，爱有梦想也拼命的去追它 死了还要面子的处女座 宁愿掉着泪也不求人。 处女座总想人生最重要的是每一天活的开心 钱是重要 可是自由比钱更重要，有智慧 办事很快 动作也快 不喜欢迟到 有恩要报 有仇也会报 你对处女座好一次 她会加十倍回报的 天天看来很活泼 嘻嘻哈哈的样子 其实很孤单的鬼 装的什么事都不管的样子 没人的时候她的脑里会出的一万种的事情要想呢 说话会刺死人 口是心非 脾气不好 生气的时候 脸色好像想杀人一样 下面是处女座的特点也许是她的坏习惯咯： －爱干净但不喜欢打干净             不喜欢肮脏的地方 只有点不干净反应会很大 可是处女座是一个懒鬼 做事都要看心情哦。 －很讨厌别人碰她的东西             可能你们觉得那个东西不该放在这里 还是要帮她整理 可是对处女座来说只要你碰她的东西 就会很生气 不管这么乱的 最好放在原点 要碰的话先跟她说一声。 －追求完美的人             不管什么事情 感情 友情 工作 就算已经有99％的好 只要有1% 的差错 也会带给她很大的烦恼 Read More …

失恋又不是世界末日

每个人都会经过失恋 我能了解是什么样的感觉 什么样的痛，可是再怎么痛我们还是好好的活着不是吗？所以失恋不代表世界末日。我年轻的时候看过很多朋友都有谈恋爱 我呢只懂得念书也不想知道什么是爱情，我朋友失恋了 伤心了都会打电话给我 哭了还说她心里很难受 当时我都建议她爱情不是我们的全部 只是一部分而已，为了一个不懂珍惜你的人掉眼泪不值得，一切都会好过来的。其实当时的我又不懂得爱是什么  没经验过 没爱过 也没痛过 所以根本不明白为什么我朋友为了爱情哭的那么惨 世界末日了么？有句话说石头没有掉在你脚 你根本不会感受到痛 也感觉不到伤的味道 轮到我有一天我失恋了 我才发现那种味道是什么样的痛 好像我人生失去了很重要的东西  无法活下去，也找不到理由的让自己开心的过生活，我承认了 失恋是很痛苦的事情 可是我们不是的好好活到现在吗 谁没有失恋过啊 再痛再苦 都会过去。简单来说：我也经验过失恋几次我还敢说 ［爱情］不是我们的全部 失恋也不是世界末日 当时谁都说 没有他／她我不能活 谁说没勇敢活下去 谁说好痛 痛到不能呼吸 谁说她／他是我的世界 没有她／他世界末日了。年轻啊我们都经过这样的蠢 蠢到会觉得没有爱情世界会末日 没什么过不去只有再也回不去呀。我们天天长大 所以生活里面会给很多了经验 想法也改变 改变的很成熟 不像我们那年的青春了 这个年代现在的我们都想通很多事情 有本事 能力养活自己 才是最重要的 失业比失恋还痛苦呢 爱情里面没说 谁没谁活不下去呢 世界也不会为了我们的爱情末日的 感情是平等 两个如果相爱那就好好在一起 不爱了好聚好散啊 你拼命勉强跟一个不爱你的人 不珍惜你 完全不值得你为他／她牺牲，我们去爱别人 同时也需要被爱的 除了男女之间的爱情 我们还有很多人要我们去爱 去珍惜 还有他们比感情可靠多呢 比如说：家人 父母 朋友啊 也许他们都懂爱你 保护你 珍惜你 那个他／她做不到的。我们不怕世界末日 只怕一不小心毁掉自己的世界而已，人生如梦 该发生就发生 该失去就让它失去 该留下就留下 该哭就哭 该笑就笑 反正生活还是继续下去 明天还是得过 相信我明天会更好的！

China Is The Difference World

On the traveling, I don’t really want to bring a lot of cash with, hard to keep and not safe at all so mostly I relied on the visa card. This is my second time exploring China mainland. I knew China has banned all the social medias like Facebook, Instagram, YouTube, google, Gmail and some other apps from western countries. It’s meant China allows only their own apps. China uses WeChat to connect to their people and pay bills. While in China I was disconnected from my people in Cambodia, only one app I can use is WeChat. I have Read More …

No One Is Really Busy!

When we say, we are busy is meant the things is not important or priority for us. There is no one is really busy in this world, it’s about the things or people are matter to them or not. As we have the same 24 hours, no one is really busy with 24 hours, right? If my friend was calling me for dinner then I said I was busy with my laundry, it was meant he/she is not priority for me. When people are matter or important to me even I’m right now with the difficult situations but I still Read More …

Be Yourself

I used to lose myself to please everyone now I start to lose everyone while I am finding me. I do apologize here and forgive me that I cannot turn to the way you want me to be. I am not the super woman I am just the human, I need to light up my world when other comes to lift me up. I never compare myself to someone else because I know there is no comparison between the sun and the moon they shine when it’s their time. I just want to be better than the person I was Read More …