Author: mjfang

I have been making many mistakes and continually, because I am human. The one big mistakes in my life is assuming. I always assume, assume that people’s going to think and doing the same way like I thought, I never ask them. Do not think you are smart enough to understand and read all people’ mind if you are not sure just ask don’t make any assuming. A lot of misunderstanding is coming from assuming, for example one Chinese’s couple who has married for 30 years, they have bun for their breakfast every morning, the wife keeps the top of Read More …

You can make more money but you can never make more time. Money is really important to everyone but so what………… if money cannot buy your freedom? Freedom is really meant to me I am going to do what I want to do, I will go where I want to go, my life is my choice and I am the one who make decision about it. When I was younger I live with my parent they really strict on what I do where I go, they make decision for me. I have been fighting so many years to get the Read More …

What is the key to your happiness? My key to the happiness is doing a little good thing every single day. Helping other as much as you can, live without regret keep forward and don’t look back. Happiness stays inside within you; you don’t have to find it. People keep asking where my happiness is. When do I meet the happiness? Have you ever asking that? Some lost themselves to finds the happiness in other, some never appreciate with what they have, complaint about life all the time, some sacrifices everything just to seek for the happiness from the other Read More …

Here are some reasons that you shouldn’t marry. When people stay together it needs the trust, respect, understand, love and care that would make love last long. Do you think marriage has something to do here? Don’t make it wrong, it’s very explicit to show here for you to take the decision-making before walking to wedding ceremony. #1.You best friends are getting married Don’t make an excuse and get blind married. Listen to your inner heart ask yourself are you ready, are you steady to settle down? #2.Sex &Love You know what your heart it wants right? Love is sex Read More …

If you judge people you don’t have time to love them. [Mother Teresa] you never understand everyone’s circumstance or situation till you were them, so be kind don’t judge. When you judge people, it doesn’t define them but it defines you. Just be nice and say hi to people in the street or someone you don’t know but it’s not your business to judge the people you even just know them for the first day? Then the question is how you judge people? You know their background, you know the whole story of their life, you know how they fight Read More …

Do not let these words [don’t give up] fool at you or dead with it. Many people keep telling us don’t give up, don’t give up but no one will tell you to give up, right?  here give up or not is an option. Why here I am talking about learn to give up on something that put you down, holding you back, or it is not your own dream. Sometime you have to give up on what you got to get what you really want, isn’t it right? We won’t give up on what is our dream, won’t give Read More …

Hello it’s me [leftover woman]. Do not get me wrong, leftover woman is also human we are not monster. Culture, Social value, family puts so much pressures on [leftover woman], do you think it is easy for standing here with a lot fighting? We are here leftover women are fighting, struggling too hard to have our own today to be a strong woman. I was born in Cambodia where the place that value and care too much on culture, social and what other people thinking about their life……… I am sick of the same old stuff, most of my friends Read More …